Today the balance needs to shift in favour of your relationship where you have great communication.
If you feel as if the balance in your house is unstable today and you are not sure which area of your life needs the most attention, your relationship should be the thing that wins out. You will have great communication in this area of your life and you should use it while it's here. Understand what you want and how you want things to go, communicate this, and listen to your partner.