Give up trying to gain power in a situation today and try going with the flow, you can relax.
You keep trying to gain power in a situation, either at home and in your private life, or at work, but you cant grasp it. Doing this is wasting your energy and getting you nowhere. Why not try letting go of this power? Are you sure you want it anyway? Go with the flow of the situation today and see where it takes you, you will be less stressed.