If you are trying to force something to happen in your life it might not be meant to, step back.
Understand today that when things are meant to be they move along smoothly without you having to force them, so if you are trying to force something to happen or to manipulate situations or people, it could be this just is not meant to happen in your life. You cant force destiny, it has its own plan, so take your foot of the accelerator and let it coast.